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Come to Me Spell

The Come to Me Spell captures a specific person’s attention and intensifies their interest in you. It creates a magnetic pull that draws them closer and moves their attraction toward romantic action.

Best Moon Phase: Waxing
Best Day: Friday
Elements: Earth
Collection: Love

SPELL COMPONENTS

Below are the spell items needed to perform the come to me spell.

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PERFORMING THE SPELL

Write your Petition

Write your petition on the back of a printed photo of the person you want to attract in red pen.

Write in the present tense, clearly stating how you want the person to express their interest toward you.

Examples to get you started:

  • “[Name] feels a strong and genuine attraction toward me, seeks my attention, reaches out to me and openly expresses their romantic interest in ways that feel safe and welcoming to me.”
  • “[Name] reaches out to me through text, phone, video call, or social media and openly communicates their romantic interest in a way that feels safe and welcoming to me.”

Be specific with your intention in your petition about how you want the person’s interest to be expressed toward you, setting clear boundaries for your safety.

Prepare the Stones

Cleanse the Stones

Always cleanse your stones before first use. Cleanse and program the lodestone and garnet one at a time.

Light a stick or cone of rose incense and allow a steady stream of smoke to form. Hold the stone over the rising smoke, slowly turning it so the smoke passes around all sides.

Program the Lodestone

Hold the lodestone between both hands and think about how the earth created its natural magnetic pull. Now envision yourself holding that same type of magnetic pull and the person you desire being naturally drawn toward you.

Program the Garnet

Next, hold the cleansed garnet between your hands. Think of the person you want to come to you, focusing specifically on how you feel when you’re around them. Picture the kind of loving and passionate relationship you want to experience together. Feel that energy flowing into the garnet.

Cast the Spell

Set your printed photo face-up on the tray facing you.

Starting from the top of the photo, add the herbs in the order listed below. As you add each item, speak its purpose out loud to direct its energy.

  • Catnip captures [name]’s attention and increases their interest in me.
  • Cardamom ignites warm romantic attraction and lust within them.
  • Ginger creates momentum that moves their interest toward action.

Once the photo has been heavily covered and is barely visible beneath the herbs, place the Lodestone in the center of the photograph and the Garnet directly beneath it to create and amplify the energetic pull toward you.

Focus on the interactions you described in your petition and visualize the person being drawn toward you. Feel the pull between you grow stronger and speak the incantation.

The Incantation

Speak the incantation three times.

“Your attention now falls on me.
The interest grows increasingly.
A magnetic pull between us holds.
Come to me as this spell unfolds.”

After the Spell

Keep the completed tray in your bedroom where it can remain flat and undisturbed. Set it on a nightstand, dresser, or slide it beneath your bed.

Give the spell time to work! Allow them to express their romantic interest first without you reaching out or introducing the topic in conversation.

Once you feel like you no longer need the spell, dispose of the herbs and photo in your home trash. You may clean and cleanse the stones and tray to use in another spell.

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